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Letters to the Editor
From: Keith
Hello, I’ve been hoping to convince my wife but have not had any luck… mostly because she is religious ..any advice?
From: Tom
Hi. GF and I used to have MFM’s, but she lost interest due to menopause. Now she’s not interested in sex at all. I, on the other hand, am very interested in sex, and, in particular, cuckold sex. I chat on occasion, but I’d like more than that. I enjoy meeting real people into the Lifestyle.
I was wondering if there are couples who invite cuckolds to join them. I’m not really the “bull” type, although I’d like to join a couple looking for a gentle 3rd. I was more of a watcher than a participant. We would have great sex after he left. Anyway, I’d just like to connect w/ like-minded people. I look forward to hearing back from you.
From: April and Al
My wife and I would like to do a cockhold video. Can you give us a production company to contact. Thank you
From: Ants
I’ve had an excitement and fantasy about cuckolding for a long time now. I think it would be better if it remained a fantasy for me. My wife is very vanilla and conservative. I guess I’ve just always wanted to give her different sensations during sex that I’m not capable of giving her. My fantasies are always around her having sex with a well hung man or a large dildo or me wearing a large cock sleeve. In your experience, how much of this fantasy is driven by the husbands desire to see the wife sexually fulfilled and completely stuffed? In your experience, is it the man who suggests this to his wife more often than the other way around? in your experience, are most cucks blessed with a small or average penis? How much of his fantasy do you think comes from my lack of confidence in the man? In your experience, does the wife usually start cuckolding to try and fulfill her husbands fantasy and then at what point does she decide she’s doing it for herself? This question is for the wife, if your husband decided he didn’t want to be an cuck anymore. Would you be able to stop? I have so many questions about this, why do I think this way? I have a feeling it has something to do with sexual trauma in my past. Not having enough positive sexual experiences maybe? The psychology about this is crazy. I know I’ve thrown a lot at you at once. Sorry. It’s just very exciting for me to talk about this fantasy with someone else since I can’t really talk about it with my wife as of now. Thanks!
From: Peter
My name is Peter, with my wife XXX for over a 18 years together,(we are both over 40 and have 1 child) my most desirable fantasy is to be a cuckold in a full meaning of it, It starts in previous relationship, her name was Marta, she was always a bit flirty to other guys, she did even ask me one time about one particular guy that was her crush for a very long time (he was ina relationship with other women so he was out of her range that time), if she will give me a head, will i allow her to have sex with that guy, And i said yes, so she quickly undress me and blow me as quick as it was possible, after that i asked her that if she was just kidding, but she was serious about it, but we were young so she left for that guy, and i was heartbroken not because she had sex with that guy multiple times without my knowledge and consent, but because she stops loving me, and concentrate her feelings on him. Even before that, when i was with Marta and before i discovers a whole cuckold thing, my fantasies was always around something like we have a threesome with one more guy, for example with one of my buddies, who always said that she is hot, even in my presence, they where even flirting in my presence, one time i found them both half naked from the waist up in other room at the party i went for more alcohol, and when i back and found them siting face to face topless/shirtless, she said it was just part of a joke and a bet who have more courage – probably not, but ok. When i meet Cristina, she was totally different she has more mature approach to male-female relationship, and yes on a first date she told me what she expect from a future partner, maybe husband, maybe father of her children – i liked that very much, she didn’t play games, she was plain on that, our relationship is very successful, now lack of sex because of fatigue(we have a child with some neuro-difficulties) we both work, but we are working on it, should i ever tell her im secretly a cuck?
From: Chuck
I was an unknown cuck for my first Wife. Then after She made me admit how much I enjoyed cleaning Her out every night after She got home. A few times I kinda knew that running down Her leg as She was wearing no panties after coming home late from work every night, I was possibly eating some strangers cum!! She made me beg Her not to stop!! It had gone on for two years before I admitted I knew and three more years after…sometimes bringing the Real Man home to use He’ll. She told my Mom about me and also made sure my next four Wives knew!! my question is how do I convince my current Wife to duck me? She has told me that the worst sex She has ever had was with me!! I had prostate cancer better got together, so She has never seen me hard!! She used to allow me to go down on Her but now Nothing ever happens with me!! I begged Her to enlist an Ex to satisfy Her but as far as I know, She has only dated one guy a few times!! I am 74 and She is 73!! She knows I want Her to date but I wonder if She just doesn’t even desire sex anymore? Suggestions? Thnx, chuck
From: Salvo
My wife and I have been practicing this for a long time, having occasional partners where I’m always present filming. For a year and a half now, we’ve had a steady partner who is older than me, which is a strong fantasy of my wife’s, and since then we’ve only done it with him. My concern is that my wife gets very excited with him, which doesn’t bother me since it’s part of the game. What bothers me is that originally the fantasy of this game was mine, and now she’s taking it as her own and desires this individual very much, and she does things with him in bed that she doesn’t do with me, and I’m no longer enjoying it. What should I do? Is it too late to end this game?