We were lying in bed one night, warming up to have sex (kissing and touching). Out of the blue, he asks.. did I ever fantasize about other men while we were having sex. I hadn’t, as our sex life was really good, hot and interesting, like the conversation.
I asked if he thought about other women. No, he didn’t. Did I fantasize about other men during sex in previous relationships? Maybe, I couldn’t remember. Where was this going, I thought.
That’s when he told me.. I am a cuckold!
When he first told me, being honest, I didn’t know what a cuckold was. I initially thought, what weird stuff is this guy into.
He then tried to explain it, he fantasized about me having sex with another man.
OK, the warning bells started ringing and I was suspect.. the skepticism got the better of me.. did he want to fuck other women, didn’t he love me anymore, did he want to end our marriage.. what the fuck!
All these thoughts raged through my head. After settling down, he explained it in more detail. It got interesting on many levels. His honesty and frankness made me curious.
I asked him to give me time so I could do some research and make up my own mind.
OMG, there is so much information about cuckolds on the internet. Theres cuckold porn which I didn’t like until I saw video’s by MaryBarrie. I started to see what excited a cuckold, and that excited me.
The reality is, cuckolds are just another sexual fantasy that a huge percentage of men are into and so are many couples.
It made fascinating reading: Some of the erotic cuckold stories were incredible, quite a turn on if I’m being honest. Some parts (like sex with black men) didn’t do anything for me but it obviously played a part in a cuckolds fantasy. It was the taboo nature of it not forgetting they are meant to have huge cocks. OK, that was interesting.
The more I read and watched, the more I was getting into it. We started talking about his fantasy and what excited him. Most of it was about my pleasure, he got off on me getting off. What woman wouldn’t like that? The more I got him to talk, the better it became. I asked him to show me stories he liked, videos he liked so I could see what excited him.
We read and watched together while I asked questions.
One video in particular.. .he pointed out things (key moments) that he liked, rubbing himself in his pants. It was fascinating hearing how something I would not have noticed was a massive part of his fantasy. Little things and not the things you’d think of and then.. he came in his pants. The visual intensity of me sharing his cuckold fantasy brought him to the boil and exploded.
and then we began…
Our first night role playing him being a cuckold (my cuckold) was omg so hawwwwwwwwwwwwwttttttttttttttttt.. I mean hot hot hot. I’d not seen him so excited. The more I got into it, the hotter it got, the hotter we got and I cannot begin to tell you how exciting it was.
I highly recommend role play a cuckold fantasy if he’s into it. Don’t worry about insecurities or him cheating on you, he’s so into “you” its crazy.
I now know that no two cuckolds are the same, but mine… oo la la, he’s a kinky little fucker.
The more I prodded, the deeper the hole we went down.
The more I made it about me, the hotter he became. I realised I could quite literally, get him to do anything I wanted.
My cuck is a submissive that wants to serve me and do anything I wish. He’s generally quite manly, not into cross-dressing or anything kinky like that but he wants to be my thing, my naughty little boy, he wants me to own him, humiliate him, but ultimately pleasure myself.
Our role-play cuckold nights are now full-on.. taking hours, full of dress-ups, massages, bathing, pampering, being licked to multiple orgasms, the best sex, and if he comes inside me, he even goes down and licks me clean.
Remember, its all role play..
CUCKOLD ROLE PLAY
It’s all in our imaginations, everything, from start to finish.
We tell each other what we want.. the nightier and dirtier the better.
I get to play with someone really hot other than my partner and he gets to watch. You can imagine your boyfriend to look exactly like you want, physical appearance, dress, cock and the tightest little ass known to man.
Cuck tells me what he wants to see me do, I tell him what I’m doing and.. what he (my cuckold) should be doing.
I almost never let him touch himself (makes him last longer) and really gets him turned on. I make him watch, I often masturbate while we role play (he loves watching me).
We role play me going out on a date with my boyfriend to a bar, from the time I start getting ready to when my boyfriend arrives to pick me up.
Getting ready is an important part of the night.. I am getting ready for my boyfriend. I tell cuck that, so he knows everything is for my boyfriend. I bathe (candles and smelling salts) and have cuck wash me while I tell him naughty things I hope boyfriend will do to me.
Then, as I put on my make-up, cuck licks me and tongues my ass while I am getting ready to go out on a date with my bull. How naughty is that.
I wear something special (revealing) and.. a nice little touch is my cuckold ankle bracelet reminding cuck that everyone can see he is my cuckold, it drives him wild.
Leaving the house, going to a bar, my boyfriend flirting, kissing and touching me in public. I never wear panties when I am out with my boyfriend which drives cuckyboy crazy.
He loves watching me with my bull from a distance (in a bar). He loves it when we kiss and cuddle. He loves anything I do for my bull I don’t do for him, like not wearing panties.
Really, anytime I humiliate cuck it drives him wild. Cuck sees other men noticing my anklet, and nodding in my direction. I love pointing them at cuck sitting in the corner. The humiliation drives cuck wild not forgetting my boyfriend laughing.
When we’ve had enough and horny, we head home. Cucky boy drives while I am in the back seat with my boyfriend. I love feeling how big and hard his cock is knowing its all for me, and of course I tell cuck.
Cuck loves knowing I am getting felt up and being fingered, my legs spread wide. He knows I love to get my boyfriends cock out and suck it, moaning.
Getting out the car, so our neighbours can see, I always kiss my boyfriend. Cuck hates it, I love it.
I’m getting my clothes off as soon as we’re in the door. I can’t wait to get into bed. Sometimes we head straight for the bedroom, other times we have a nightcap made by cuck in the lounge. Its so sexy kissing and fondling in front of cuck, hearing him moan and fidget. Boyfriend sometimes asks cuck to undress me for him. Its like cuck is giving me away.
I often end up on the bed with my boyfriend fucking my daylights out, albeit me with a dildo with cuck watching.
We’ve tried cuck fucking me after my boyfriends has cum inside me but he cums too fast. The excitement is too much for him so I keep him waiting.
Cuck loves going down on me, licking me clean, sucking out my boyfriends cum.
The dirtier the role play, the harder I get off. I’ve had some mind-blowing orgasms being his mistress.
.. and then, and only then do I allow him to cum.
ALL MAKE BELIEVE ROLE PLAY
UPDATE
We found it was best if we had a designated cuckold night.. one night a week when we role-play him being a cuckold.
Cuckoldry is a very powerful fantasy for men, specially when you give them what they want. If you don’t set a regularity, then he will want it ‘every’ night.
There’s nothing stopping me from sneaking in one when he doesn’t expect it.
REAL LIFE BOYFRIEND & CUCKOLD
This is the single biggest question couples face. After really good (and hot) role play, do they try it in real life?
We say NO even though we have done it, and continue to enjoy a cuckold relationship with another man who is my boyfriend.
There are mitigating circumstances that allow us to continue the relationship. We are very happy but.. it was an incredible fluke.’
I love my husband to bits and am extremely cautious about anything that might affect our wonderful relationship. Everything we have done, has been done after long honest discussion, weighing up the pros and cons and taking things slow. Remember, cuckolds is a sexual fantasy and sex, and that is not worth risking our relationship unless we are 100% sure.
Introducing a third person to any relationship is risky. While males can treat it as a sexual fantasy, girls, we can’t. Our emotions get in the way. We want affection, emotion, attention, great sex, kindness and sometimes love. If the new man (boyfriend) shows us these things, we can begin to have emotional feelings for him outside the bedroom.
Love must always come first between the husband and wife. It is the love that bonds the two together, do not risk losing it.
If you are not sure, or have any doubts.. keep it in the bedroom at home with hubby!
More than happy to hear your situation and offer advice.
