This was written for Carol who wrote to us after discovering her hubby was not only a cuckold but a submissive cuckold.
Not every cuckold is submissive, or subservient, or into Femdom, or any of the other things included in this article.
It serves to help wives train their subby men into the kind of men they really are, and want to be.
The truth is, they might not admit it but with a little training, most sub men would love to be everything we’re about to tell you.
When we received Carol’s email, it reminded us of the Literotica story = How to Break Your Man by Robert_Anthony.
Possibly too full-on for many, but at the same time, since publishing this in 2018, 100’s of couples absolutely love it. They say it changed their lives for the better.
Ladies, read it in private, consider what suits and introduce it in the bedroom one step at a time.
Fair warning, this is a Femdom / Cuckold / Chastity article, if that’s not your thing that’s okay, it’s not for everyone.
How to Break Your Man
Rick’s finger trembled as it hovered agonisingly over the ‘SEND’ button. Deep down he knew this was A REALLY BAD IDEA, but the thought of Amy watching this video and what that might potentially lead to made his balls ache and his stomach churn. His lip started to tremble slightly and as he finally clicked ‘SEND’ an intoxicating wave of fear and regret washed over him.
Forty miles away, in the heart of the city, Amy was riding in a lift up to the fourth floor of her hotel when she got the message. At that moment she was far too busy to pay it any attention, she had a packed day ahead and a long, tiring evening to look forward to. Momentarily she checked her watch; the traffic had been brutal and she really didn’t have that much time to get settled in before her first meeting.
She caught sight of herself in the mirrored wall of the lift. She looked very smart today, dressed in a fitted suit that showed off her gentle curves nicely. She reached up and fiddled with a single hair that wasn’t quite sitting right with the rest of her neat brown bob.
“Not bad… for nearly 35,” she mused. Actually, Amy had only just turned 32 and she looked closer to 28 if truth be told…
Amy dropped her suitcase on the bed and flipped it open, then started removing her clothes and hanging them in the small wardrobe provided. She didn’t especially like having to stay away from home, but she knew when she took this job that there would be times when she had to put aside her personal preferences for the good of her career.
Her phone buzzed and she saw she had several messages from members of her team and also one from her husband of six years Rick (who was two years her senior). She clicked on that one first and saw there was an attachment titled ‘H.T.B.Y.M.’.
“Hi Amy, I hope you got there safely. I’ve been wanting to send you this video for a very long time. I thought maybe you could watch it later if you have time. Love you, Rick. XXX.”
Amy smiled, it wasn’t unusual for Rick to send her videos to watch, over the years she’d learned a lot about her husband’s ‘proclivities’ and their relationship had ‘developed’ over time as a result. Nominally they were in what you might call a ‘Femdom’ relationship, but it was fairly playful and irregular. However, it was clear that Rick wanted more, and while Amy found it exciting, her naturally cautious nature was holding her back a little.
Amy closed Rick’s message and started reading and answering the others she had received. Once she’d done that she again checked the time and seeing that she had a few minutes to spare she flicked back to Rick’s message, wondering what the video could be and what ‘H.T.B.Y.M.’ stood for.
That mystery was solved as soon as she clicked on the attachment. The video opened with the text ‘How to Break Your Man’ displayed at the bottom of the screen while a very hot, but fully clothed girl stood smoking and blowing smoke at the camera.
As Amy watched, more text appeared at the bottom of the screen…
“Ladies this video is for you. If you are unsatisfied in the bedroom follow this guide. You’ll learn to demand a new lifestyle, one where you’re in charge, where he submits to you and you can do anything you want. You deserve that freedom, all you need to do is teach him, train him, coerce him, break him… It’s easy if you follow these steps.”
‘O-kay’, thought Amy. Then another line of text appeared.
“If you are a beta boy watching this, show it to your girl, she already knows you deserve it anyway!”
On the screen a series of couples appeared having sex, mostly women being penetrated from behind while checking their phones or reading books…
“Step 1 — Show him he doesn’t satisfy you in bed. He needs to know that you are unsatisfied.”
Amy chuckled to herself, that was a bit harsh. Rick maybe wasn’t the greatest lover she’d ever had, but she didn’t really have any complaints and he loved going down on her.
“Step 2 – Make him go down on you regularly, he will be excited to please you even if it’s only with his tongue. DO NOT ASK PERMISSION FIRST. Just pull his head down or climb on his face. Do not give him sex without getting oral first. If he complains cut him off from sex for a week. Remember you’re the boss!”
Well.. that wasn’t an issue, Rick never turned her down… but the idea of just straddling his face without saying a word made her pussy tingle a little.
“Step 3 — Limit him to handjobs after he licks you to orgasm. He may want more at first, but make sure he’s too horny to argue. Reduce the attention on him, teach him to focus on YOU. Even though you might not fuck him, make the transition slowly with time, until you’re only fucking his tongue and giving him handjobs.”
On the screen a woman jerked a guy’s cock while slapping his balls and then another woman jerked a guy off over her stomach while ignoring him and looking at her phone. Amy frowned slightly, thinking this was a little odd… but she kept watching.
“Step 4 — Make him fall in love with your feet. Start by asking for footrubs and walking barefoot around the house. He might not like it at first, but it’s important he does it anyway. Make him worship your feet in public, perhaps in your car, you want him to feel embarrassed and powerless. It will reaffirm that you’re in charge.”
Amy smiled again as she watched a girl in the passenger seat of a car pulling off her socks and pointing her pretty feet towards the camera. Rick already had a foot fetish and it might be fun to make him worship her feet in public, or somewhere they might possibly be seen.
“Step 5 — Tease his dick as much as possible. Dangle him so close to fucking you, but never let him. This will drive him crazy. You want him horny and hopeful. He’ll worship you every day, dreaming to fuck your pussy. It will never happen, but keep his hopes alive, he can cum near your pussy, but never inside.”
On the screen an Asian girl was on top of a guy, rubbing her pussy against his dick until he shot his load all over his own stomach. Amy found her fingers moving down between her legs and pressing gently against her groin.
“Mmmm, that was hot!” she muttered to herself.
“Step 6 — Get ‘caught’ masturbating. At this stage he knows not to complain. But he will feel pathetic and jealous. Invite him to watch you masturbate, even better if you use a large dildo. Show him how good it feels, make sure he knows he could never please you like this.”
On the screen a series of girls appeared, each fucking themselves enthusiastically with a variety of large dildos. Amy sighed loudly as she watched a gorgeous dark-haired girl with slutty sandals impale herself on a thick rubber cock, wishing now that she had thought to pack her own toys.
Abruptly the stream of girls disappeared, only to be replaced by a solitary hard cock, throbbing as it was teased by the tip of a woman’s tongue, cum slowly leaking out and down the shaft.
More text filled the screen.
“If you’ve made it this far then this lifestyle is definitely for you, hopefully you’ve noticed a huge change in his behaviour by now. You’ve taught him to please you first and not to say no. You’ve severely limited his chance to fuck you and he’s been teased to the point of desperation. But he’s still not broken the way he needs to be. Most girls miss these next critical steps. Don’t be one of them. You need to break him completely.”
Now a woman lay next to her partner on a bed, squeezing his balls roughly in her hand as she masturbated…
Amy let out a small groan of pleasure.
“Step 7 — Jerk him off with your feet (make him clean them afterwards), then after he gets used to this use your feet to ruin his orgasm. As soon he starts to cum stop touching him and relax your feet, just let his cum drip onto them so that he can eat it.”
On the screen a girl stroked a well lubed cock with her feet until it started to cum and then stopped moving, leaving the guy’s cum to dribble out onto her toes.
Amy had actually teased Rick’s cock with her foot before but she’d never thought to use lube, that would be pretty hot to try…
“Step 8 — Introduce him to chastity. Tell him again how unsatisfied you are and how you need a change. Lots of couples are experimenting with chastity these days. Convincing him to put the cage on is the hard part. But once you do you can keep him locked as long as you want. Now this is very important; Remember to tease him OFTEN. Keep him horny and desperate. Wear the key on a chain where he can see it constantly, either around your neck or even better around your ankle.”
‘Huh,’ thought Amy. Rick had bought her an ankle chain a couple of years ago; it was really pretty but she’d only ever worn it once. Her friend Alex had seen it and told her that she should be careful as it was a sign to guys that she was a ‘Hot Wife’ and after that she’d left it in her jewellery box. As for chastity, they’d played with the idea a little, but it was more that she teased him several times throughout the day before eventually letting him cum either later that day or sometimes the day after. She certainly hadn’t ever entertained the idea of locking his cock up, but maybe it could be fun…?
Amy looked at the time again.
“Fuck!”
She closed the video and hurriedly checked her reflection before heading back to the lift.
*****
Amy opened the door to her room and all but collapsed onto the bed. She was exhausted and she still had to have a bath and get ready for the evening do with the big bosses. She really wished she could go home, but she was stuck here for another two days. Ugh!
At least it was only one more night after this one, then she could sleep in her own bed again, with Rick.
She picked up her phone and texted her husband.
AMY: Hi Sweetie, I’m beat. What a day.
RICK: Hi Amy, did you get my message earlier?
AMY: Shit, yes. Sorry, been so busy today. I didn’t get chance to reply.
RICK: No worries.
AMY: Have you had a good day?
RICK: Oh, you know… same old.
AMY: I know. ๐
AMY: I watched that video you sent me.
RICK: You did?
AMY: Well, some of it… I’ll watch the rest tonight.
RICK: Okay.
Rick’s mind was racing wondering where she’d got to on the video. He was expecting more of a reaction. Maybe she only watched the start?
AMY: Sorry babe, I gotta go and get ready now.
RICK: Please send shower pics. ๐
AMY: Cheeky! Yeah, it might have to be a shower. There’s a big bath in this room, looks so nice, but I just don’t think I’m going to have the time. Oh well, maybe tomorrow night.
RICK: That’s a shame. If I was there, I would run your bath for you and wash every bit of you clean.
AMY: I bet you would too!
RICK: Okay, well have a good time, if you can.
AMY: No chance of that, but at least the wine is paid for.
RICK: Nice!
AMY: Love you. XXX
RICK: Love you 2, XXX
Amy dropped the phone and flopped back onto the bed. She truly hated these overnight stays, but it was par for the course and she was the one who wanted a job in finance. She hauled herself up and started to peel off her clothes as she headed for the bathroom. She glanced at the huge bathtub longingly and then flicked the shower into life.
As she stood under the refreshing flow of water, she thought back to the video she’d watched earlier. “Step 8 — Introduce him to chastity. Remember to tease him OFTEN. Keep him horny and desperate. Wear the key to his cage on a chain where he can see it constantly, either around your neck or even better around your ankle.”
Amy noticed her nipples starting to harden as she remembered this part of the video. Chastity didn’t sound so bad; she quite liked the idea of being able to tease and control her husband’s cock. Her hands moved down across her stomach and she gently teased her pussy a little, she could use a nice orgasm right now — she hadn’t cum in a shower for years.
She closed her eyes for a second and imagined Rick kneeling in front of her naked save for a chastity cage, begging to be released and allowed to cum.
“Shit!”
Amy’s reverie was broken when she heard the alarm she’d set on her phone start blaring around the bathroom. She knew she only had 45 minutes to get dry, do her hair and apply her make-up. She quickly finished showering and all thoughts of Rick were temporarily put aside.
*****
Amy got back to her room at 1AM. She wasn’t ‘drunk’ exactly, but she’d had enough and she couldn’t wait to get to bed. The people she worked with were so fucking boring, all they could find to talk about was stock options, mergers and blah blah blah. Well, everyone except Matthew of course… everyone loved talking to Matthew.
Matthew started at the company a couple of months ago. Most of the women there were mildly obsessed with him and it wasn’t hard to see why. At 6’3″ Matthew cut an imposing figure in the offices, his dark skin looked great against his crisp white shirts and he smelt amazing whenever he walked by (Tom Ford, she was 90% certain!). And of course, it didn’t take long for the rumours to start doing the rounds… one of the girls apparently found his Instagram page and aside from his impressive stomach one picture seemed to show a solid bulge in his swimming shorts too. Needless to say, Amy had privately sneaked a peek at his Insta, not that she would admit to doing so.
She stripped off her clothes and discarded them on a nearby chair, then went into the bathroom. The bathtub was still there, taunting her.
“I’ll see you tomorrow!” she chuckled to herself.
She cleaned her teeth and then got into bed. She thought about Rick.
“He’s probably asleep,” she told herself.
AMY: Hi sweets, hope you had a nice evening. Got to have been better than mine. Ugh!
She watched the screen hoping for a reply, but none came…
AMY: I’m going to watch the rest of your video now. Love you. XXX
Amy flicked back to the attachment she’d opened earlier and jumped to where she left off.
“Step 9 — Get him to cross dress for you. He probably won’t want to, but just tell him it will be a one off and fun. Do not let him out of the cage until he agrees, he will feel immediately humiliated and when he does quickly take a photo.”
Amy chuckled at this suggestion as on the screen what she thought was a hot blond girl lifted the front of her dress to reveal ‘her’ chastity cage. Seeing this her smile faded and her brow furrowed again as she contemplated what this could mean…
“Step 10 — Use the photos to blackmail him. Jokingly suggest you might post his picture online by accident (don’t worry you won’t ever need to do this) and remind him of this if he resists any of the following steps. You won’t believe how much easier everything becomes…”
Amy paused the video as she tried to get her head around the fact that her husband had sent her this video to watch. What the fuck was she supposed to make of this?
Exasperated she flicked back to her chat and started to write a message…
AMY: “Rick… WTF?”
Her finger hovered over the send button, and then she thought better of it. After all, she knew he was asleep. She flicked back to the video and pressed play once more…
“Step 11 — Buy a strap on to fuck him with. Teach him to fuck like a girl, teach him to enjoy it. Make him beg you for it. This is the only way you fuck now. He should view anal as a reward and the only pleasure he deserves.”
On the screen short clips of women fucking men in the ass flashed by one after another, before a slightly longer clip appeared showing a very hot Asian girl dressed head to toe in latex brutally face-fucking a guy and finally another girl fucking a guy in the ass while fucking his mouth with a dildo at the same time.
“Jesus Christ,” thought Amy. She had pegged Rick a couple of times, but not like that!
“Step 12 — Condition him to watch you being penetrated. Buy a chin mounted strap-on and ride his face and a regular strap on for him to wear above his cage so you can ride ‘his’ cock. Use this conditioning to teach him an important lesson. You love big cocks…”
Amy stared at the screen wondering how much more of this there could possibly be.
“Step 13 — Bring home a real man to fuck. Your boy will be too humiliated to protest. He’s broken now, he’s totally corrupted and you can do whatever you want. You own his mind, he exists to worship you, You can invite your friends over to humiliate him, or have him watch your bull fuck you. Make him lick the bull’s cum from your feet and pussy, train him to like it.”
“Step 14 — Teach him to cum in his cage. To begin with use a vibrator on his cage and balls, then train him to come from anal. Once he learns to do this it will become the only way he gets to cum. Force him to eat your used pussy first and peg him daily to keep him in line. Keep him obsessed with your feet. You’re beyond the point of return, this is your new normal, this is the sex life you deserve. Take charge. BREAK HIM!”
The video finally concluded and Amy sat staring at her phone for a few seconds, before she shut it off and put it next to her on the nightstand. Despite the alcohol, sleep eluded her and as she lay there, images and words from the video ricocheted around her head. Similarly, when she woke up at 5:45 the next morning she couldn’t seem to think about anything else.
After a few minutes she sat up in bed and grabbed her phone. She opened the file again and by the time she got to ‘Step 10’ she was gently stroking her clit. When the video ended she restarted it and by the time she got to ‘Step 13’ a second time she had cum, HARD.
“Jesus,” she said to herself as she recovered, “This video is fucked up!”
How to Break Your Man by Robert_Anthony
By Step 3 he had his cock out and was stroking it hard, his breathing already ragged as he imagined Amy treating him like the women in the video were treating the men.
Trust me when I say, the moment he has his hard cock out in front of you, jacking off, the rest is a given.