Will the cuckolding lifestyle make your wife see you as less of a man by Nathalie Bardot
Sometimes people contact me to discuss certain aspects of the cuckolding lifestyle or to get advice.
Once I was chatting with a cuck and he wrote something like “I don’t want people find out that I’m a loser.” It was a very sincere statement from his side and that made me think a lot about prejudices about cuck. Prejudices so strong that even a cuck himself, thought he was less of a man.
I fully understand that most people don’t tell the world that they’re into this lifestyle (in the same way you don’t share other parts of your intimate life with friends and family), but why would cucks be seen as losers?
Actually, I believe I know why. Internet is COMPLETELY full of posts describing cucks as pathetic losers. That cucks are beta males who can’t satisfy their wives, that they aren’t masculine enough etc.
I must say that there are few things that annoys me more!
In my point of view, a cuck is extremely confident, generous, loving etc., how could he otherwise willingly take part in this lifestyle?
The wife’s view of the cuck husband
In a similar vein, whether the cuckolding lifestyle will change the wife’s view of the husband, is a frequently debated question online. The focus of such discussion is not seldom on whether or not the woman has lost her respect for the husband after entering the cuckolding lifestyle.
From a female perspective, I honestly don’t see why that would that be the case.
If I turn to myself; in our everyday life, nothing has changed — not for the worse at least. In terms of our sex life, we obviously explore more than most couples and yes, I see other men but why would I think any less of hubby because of that? I rather respect him more for daring to tell me about his inner fantasy and for letting me explore my sexuality to the max.
Also, my husband is as far from a “pathetic loser” as one can get. He’s good looking, has a sexy body, he’s the smartest person I’ve ever met, he’s very confident and also sexually confident, he’s social and funny. Well, I can go on but you get the picture. We’re not into this lifestyle because he’s less of a man. We’re into this lifestyle because he’s so much of a man that he felt confident enough to tell me about his cuckolding fantasy. And because of that, we could start exploring this amazing world together.
We’ve always had a very active and great sex life and we still do. The cuckolding fantasy just takes things to a new level. Like an extra spice if you like.
My husband sure enjoys sexual teasing and even humiliation. He loves the fact that I fuck men who are more well-endowed than him — because that’s part of what turns him on.
He didn’t bring this fantasy up for me to get sexually satisfied — I already was with him and he knows that. He brought this up because he’s turned on by knowing of or seeing me with other men but perhaps mainly, because he finds it extremely hot when I get to explore my sexuality with different men and in different ways. And it’s true, I’ve explored some things with bulls that I never thought I would and we both love it that way.
So yes, I tease him about bulls being bigger than him, fucking harder, recharging faster etc. as we both get turned on by it. But for us, this is a sexual game just as any other kink. And no, I don’t think of him as less of a man and I honestly don’t think it’s very common among women to think that way.
I do understand that existing prejudices about cucks, and accordingly the thought that the wife might lose respect for her husband, can be a fear for a man wanting to bring up his cuckolding fantasy with his wife. However, I do think that such prejudices are more prominent among men than women. Most women probably never even heard about cuckolding. I sure hadn’t when hubby first brought this up to me.
Obviously, I also understand that the variety in the kind of men who are cucks and the reasons for getting into the lifestyle is enormous. BUT I truly believe that the “pathetic loser cuck husband” is mainly created by porn and then developed further in online communities and I think that’s a pity!
The Wife’s View of her Cuck Husband
By Nathalie Bardot | medium.com
Oct 3, 2024