Short answer: No.
The long answer is that it’s complicated and nuanced, as are so many things where human sexuality is concerned.
Submissiveness is a common trait among cuckolds and men that harbor a cuckold fantasy. That’s largely because cuckolding is most commonly an expression of masochistic desires (I like to think of it as a form of emotional masochism).
If a man desires to be a cuckold (and not just a stag husband that watches his hotwife have great sex with someone else) he almost certainly wants to experience some form of suffering. He enjoys the angst of waiting at home while she’s out with her lover. He enjoys hearing that the man she just slept with is better than him or has a bigger penis. Sometimes he enjoys being denied the pleasures of her body.
It would be fair to lump all of those tendencies in with submissiveness. He’s certainly going to find it more arousing if he doesn’t have to supply his wife with a script for when she gets home from her encounter. He wants to know her true feelings, not what he’s demanded that she say to him.
That being said, most men (and women, for that matter) exist on a spectrum. It’s entirely possible for a man to be dominant in most areas of his life (in charge at work, a decision maker in most areas of the marriage, etc) and still want to feel sexually submissive from time to time.
Talk to any professional dominatrix and she’ll tell you that most of the men that come to her would be thought of as dominant alpha males. For a man like that there can be great pleasure in submitting to a woman.
It’s also worth noting that it’s so much hotter to dominate a strong, successful, smart man. My husband is like that, and it makes his submission so much sexier.
So, submissiveness certainly tends to be a part of cuckolding, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that every cuckold is a submissive or that he’s necessarily a loser that isn’t worth your time. His sexual fantasies may very well be a small, compartmentalized part of his life.
What is the most humiliating act you did to your husband in a cuckold lifestyle?
I am very dominate in business but I am pure beta in bedroom. My lovely wife knows that I am very submissive by heart and mind. Hence cuckolding is very natural for us. She is sexually very alpha and I can hardly last 2 minutes for her. Hence sissy cuckolding is our destiny.
One time we were having a very nice date with a guy. Guy was so handsome, having a solid huge cock and very nice stamina. He knew how to treat and satisfy women in bed. Some guys are made for bedroom and he was amazing for my wife. When my wife is with pure alpha guys – she goes on while new level.
Mostly she love to see me in my pink chastity cage, panties in sexy naughty maid dresses during such dates.
One time after few sessions we were relaxing and having a delicious wine – my wife and guy were relaxing on bed and I was just on side sofa locked in cage, in panties and in very short pink maid dress. We were all holding glasses of wife.
After few minutes my wife stood up, took our glasses of wine and collected 2–3 condoms filled with this guy’s cum and went into kitchen so I thought she is putting them into bin and taking more wine. She came after few minutes and handed the glasses to us.
Then she sat down in bed with this guy and told me – my sweet sissy cuck if you really love me and if you are a true sissy cuck then make sure you drink that glass of wine for me. I was like – what is the big issue – I love wine and then she laughed and told me that that just look into your glass- wine looks bit different as she emptied 2 filled condoms into it.
I was so shocked and the guy was so shocked. Few times we already did cum cleaning and if the guy is really good – I am up for it. But this time wifey has challenged me too much. I never expected such kinky act from her.
So she continued to tease me – common my sweet sissy cucky – prove it that you are really born cuckold. So I just drank the whole glass with full enjoyment and they both clapped. Guy said thanks for accepting my cum and I told him thanks for giving me your cum to me and my wife.
It was so humiliating at first in front of other guy how your wife dominates you and makes you drink cum from the wine glass. But I really loved her role as alpha woman and whenever she crosses limits and becomes powerful.
Cuckold & Stag
Based on my experience as a cuckold bull, every couple is different. Cuckolding or cuckoldry is very broad subject. There are two terms for husband in Cuckolding lifestyle. Which are cuckold and stag. So many husband call them cuckold but actually they are stag.
If husband like humiliation during cuckold session then you can say he is cuckold. Majority of time cuckold has small dick than cuckold bull. If husband don’t like humiliation during cuckold session then he is stag. Stag like to watch his wife getting pleasure in front of him but without humiliation. In many cases, He is not weak or he has small penis.
Coming to your main question, most humiliating act was when I met one gujrati couple in Mumbai. His wife said, when you cum don’t cum inside and ejaculate on my stomach. Then my husband will clean it by his tongue