Girls.. I cannot emphasize enough .. cuckolds are all about “your pleasure”. Yes, your cuck gets off on it too, but he gets off because YOU do.
A cuckold gets off on you getting off which is the case for 90% of cuckolds. If he has admitted he’s interested in cuckoldry, then listen.
If he wants to fuck other women, or swing then he is not a cuckold. Begin a different conversation with him because its not about cuckoldry.
If he wants to see you with women (most popular male fantasy) then this not cuckoldry either.
Put simply: a cuckold wants you to be with another male. Yes, in most cases he wants the male to be good looking, sexy, manly and have a big cock. He wants you to want the male, find him sexy, attractive, and if its your thing, manly, dominant and a nice big cock to fuck you silly.. remember, this is not about love or for you to have feelings for the male other than for sex.
It’s all about SEX.. in the majority of cases, a cuckold simply wants to watch, or listen to you getting off with another man. That doesn’t make him sick or twisted, its a fantasy he cannot shake.
Doesn’t it show how much he loves you that he is willing to risk so much for his deep embedded fantasy? It is why the fantasy can stay in the bedroom with just the two of you.. as a fantasy. He will quite happily listen to you talk about cuckolding him, and for you, he will be your devoted cuckold.
Your cuckold revels in you looking at him as you and your boyfriend/bull have sex. You are not making love, this is all about sex and orgasms.
Creampie’s (cum in your pussy) are not for every cuckold. He may want to go down on you, lick you, clean you, taste cum, and if he does he will want you to invite him to do it.
I don’t wish this to sound mean.. but he will do “anything” you want!
It is all about your pleasure. If he can feel you enjoyment, he will go along with it.
Nothing is out of the question.. he will massage. he will give you head until the sun goes down, he will tongue your ass, he will accept any form of punlishment, he will abstain from sex, abstain from orgasms*, he will abstain from anything you want him to… its all about your pleasure!
* orgasms – it may surprise you to learn, cuckolds love having their orgasms managed. That means denial (until you want him to cum). It means making him wait, and you should make him wait. Never let a cuckold cum until you have cum. Never let a cuckold cum until you feel the time is right. It’s called post-nut clarity… men change their minds after sex. It is a real, scientifically backed phenomenon driven by a rapid drop in dopamine and a rise in prolactin… just take my word for it.. don’t let him cum.
.. and he won’t as long as you are strong with him.. don’t you dare cum you little cuck!
Which brings me to.. he will do anything he is told. Keep him on the edge (don’t let him cum) keep him hot. How long.. you might be surprised to discover.. hours, days, weeks, months.. if he is hard, he will wait for you. Many cuckolds like you to manage their orgasms.. in time he might even wear a cage (around his dick) and wait. See here
I’ve been cucking my man for 20 years. We love it. We both get what we want. If the truth be known, I get more than cuck. It’s definitely tilted in our favour girls. I discovered the more control I took, the more he wanted. Yes, sometimes he arked up but with a bit of persuasion (wink), he bowed to my want and need. It still surprises me how submissive and willing he is when its about my pleasure.
We all know our men, what excites them.. well, if he has admitted cuckold tendencies (in any way) then this really excites them.
Talk & Understand Him
Talk! Go somewhere relaxing, have a drink, watch for signs of nervousness.. if he is, you are laughing girlfriend.
Ask questions, because the answers will tell you “everything” you need to know. at the point, don’t be concerned with taking it into the real world. He may fantasize about it, but when it comes to the punch, it may be a step too far. In other words, its a bedroom fantasy.. and I ask you.. what woman doesn’t want a submissive man to give her endless orgasms? Mine does.
Exploring his boundaries – Questions (some to relax him)
- did you think I’d be interested in your fantasy?
- what if I told you I like the idea?
- depending on how you answer my questions, is where we will go. I’m not for or against it I just need to know more.. about you.
– do you want me to cuckold you in real or is this a bedroom fantasy.. roleplay? or do we see how it goes? - how long have you been a cuckold? (state the obvious will relax him) – my man (who I thought I knew) admitted being a cuckold since he was 21 but had never told anyone.
- have you ever experienced your fantasy with anyone?
- am I in your cuckold fantasies?
- would you like me to go out in sexier clothing, show off a little?
- would you like it if I flirted with guys?
- do watch cuckold porn? if he does, ask to see some because it will show the akind of cuckold things he likes.
- do you read cuckold stories? if yes, show me your favourites.
- are you a submissive cuckold?
- do you like the idea of creampies?
- do you want me to cuckold you in real or is this a bedroom fantasy.. roleplay?
- if I asked you to get between my legs right now and get me off would you?
- do you imagine me with anyone? a friend, worker, someone?
- what kind of man do you imagine me with?
- do you want a threesome, or with a woman – this sorts out the non-cuckolds
- do you want to take part? or just watch?
- would you lkike me to go on dates with men?
- what if I brought them home and made you watch?
- yes/no questions..
– do want me to verbally humiliate you – like call you names?
– would you lick your cum out of my pussy after you cum in it?
– could you stand seeing a man fuck me?
– would it make you jealous to watch me suck someones cock? if he says yes, say good.. it means you have a good one
– did you expect me to want to cuck you?
– do you think you could watch “someones name” fuck me?
– would you tongue my ass?
If it goes how I think it goes, you have to gently nudge him along.. push him, push his cuck buttons.. those buttons will let you do anything you want with him, and in turn he will do anything you desire.
It’s always about you and your man.. you never do anything that risks the marriage.
About you! the woman, the wife, the cuckoldress
None of this makes you a slut! There is nothing wrong with wanting different things in your sex life. He wants you to be pleasured by other men, and so do you.. where is the issue with that?
Yes I had my misgivings to begine with but as time has gone on, I wish we had started years ago. Could I tell you some stories.’
Everything we do is by mutual afgreement. If either of us does not like something or someone, we don’t go there.
This is not about hurting anyone, although my man does enjoy being humiliated. Only in the bedroom and only because thats what he wants. It took me ages to get used to it but now.. he loves it when I humiliate the little fucker, tell him he has a little dick, that my boyfriend has a much bigger “cock” and can go all night. Its all part of the game.. he loves it.
About him! the cuckold
No two men are alike and neither are cuckolds. They come in all shapes, sizes and bents.
If he has admitted to you that he has cuckold fantasies, then you are well on the way. If you suspect it, talking is the only way forward. See below for Is he or isn’t he, but don’t be surprised.. you’d not believe some that I have met.. big strong powerful executives, dominant men in business, seemingly masculine happy men.
But they all share the same fantasy.. they want their woman (you) to cuckold them.
Cuckold Traits
- Humiliation
- Cum-eating
- Submissive
- Watch you have sex with other men – if its other women, then he’s not a cuckold
- Female domination
- Cross dressing
- Gay tendencies – suck cock
- Voyeur
- Low esteem / Inseccurity (in the bedroom)
- Small penis (often they have a normal size but like to fantasize they are small and/or they fantasize you want BIG)
- Compersion/Altruism: Experiencing joy in their partner’s pleasure.
- Exhibitionism: Liking to see their partner receive attention from other men in public, such as flirting.
- Interest in Specific Pornography: Frequent viewing of hotwife or cuckold-themed pornography
Is he or isn’t he?
That is the question.. is my man a cuckold keeping in mind, many men would never admit it even if they were.
For this exercise, we’ll suspect they are or that they simply have the typical male fantasy of wanting to see two women together.
Questions to ask
1. The “Hypothetical Scenario” Approach
These questions allow you to gauge interest without accusing him of harboring a specific fantasy.
- “I read an article about ‘hotwifing’—which is when a wife has fun with other people and the husband likes to hear about it. What do you think of that idea?”
- “What do you think of those non-monogamous relationships where only the woman is allowed to see other people?”
- “Do you think it’s possible for someone to be turned on by their partner flirting with someone else, or do you think that’s just weird?”
2. The “Media/Porn” Approach
Cuckolding is often rooted in fantasies found in media. Discussing media can be a safe way to test the waters.
- “I accidentally stumbled across some really intense adult videos—have you ever heard of ‘cuckold’ porn? What do you think that’s about?”
- “I saw a movie/show recently that had a storyline about sharing a partner. What’s your take on that kind of roleplay?”
3. The “Innocent Storyline” Approach
You can bring it up as a “hypothetical” friend or a story you read.
- “I was reading a forum/article about a couple who fixed their sexual boredom by having the wife see other men, and the husband felt closer to her. Does that sound crazy to you?”
- “I heard someone say they fantasized about their partner being desired by other men. Do you think that’s a common fantasy?”
4. Direct But Low-Pressure Questions
- “Are you completely satisfied with our sex life, or is there a fantasy you’ve ever wanted to explore?”
- “What’s your biggest sexual fantasy that you’ve never mentioned?”
Key Behaviors to Observe
If these questions make him eager to discuss it, his interest may be confirmed. Other, non-verbal cues found in similar situations include:
- Encouragement of Attention: He enjoys it when you dress provocatively or when other men look at you.
- Open Access: He may leave his phone, laptop, or browser history open with relevant, similar topics.
- Discussion of Other Men: He may compare himself, or have you compare him, to other men—often focusing on size or performance differences.
- Important Context: If he does not have this fetish, these questions may be confusing. If you are doing this to find out if he is cheating, these questions are designed to find out if it is consensual cheating (cuckolding), not hidden infidelity.
However it goes girlfriend, I hope he’s everything you hope he is.
Either way, I’d love to hear how you got on?